October, 2010

Wednesday, October 13th, 2010

Is That Party A Good Idea?

You’ve moved out of your family home and you suddenly feel a new sense of freedom. There is no one asking where you are all the time and you can play your music until whatever hour you like.

However, you should exercise some caution when you move into accommodation for students.

If you decide to organise too many parties in your student homes, you may well end up suffering as a result.

Firstly, all such social gatherings result in a lot of mess and freshers’ parties can be particularly bad in this regard, with some people not being aware of their alcohol limits.

Also, whether your organise parties in student accommodation in Bristol or elsewhere, you may end up angering those living near you.

After all, being kept awake by the music of a party held by neighbours can be annoying, particularly if you have work the next day.

Depending on the patience of the people in question and how far you push your luck, you could end up getting into trouble.

Living in close proximity with people who take a dislike to you can be an uncomfortable experience so it is something you should try to avoid.

However, if you decide to go ahead with a party in your student homes, there are a number of ways in which you can minimise this risk.

For example, you should try to keep control of the volume of the music and don’t let it get too high.

Also, it’s best to keep guests in your house or flat, rather than having some of them spilling out into gardens and corridors as this will result in extra noise for neighbours.

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Monday, October 11th, 2010

How Domesticated Are You?

You might like to think of yourself as a competent adult. After all, you have moved away from the family home and are setting up in student accommodation in Birmingham or elsewhere miles away from friends and relatives.

Not only this, but you are also embarking on a course that will ultimately lead to a degree.

However, moving into student homes can be a shock and draw attention to certain aspects of life that you are not that well prepared for.

For example, one of the things you will have to get used to – and fast – is cleaning up after yourself.

You may come from a home in which strict rules about domestic chores were imposed and so you are used to getting on with tasks like hovering, mopping and washing up.

On the other hand, you may not be very familiar with getting your hands dirty in this way.

And, on the basis of the state of much student accommodation, many individuals fall into the latter category.

If you want to avoid living in a pigsty, you will need to get into a cleaning routine from the very beginning of your time in student homes.

One aspect of this is always cleaning the cutlery, crockery and pans you use when you cook. Leaving them creates an obstruction for others who want to use the kitchen and also, as the food hardens, it becomes more difficult to wash off.

Also, you should make sure you dust and vacuum your bedroom because letting such dirt build up can be unsightly and even bad for your health.

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Friday, October 8th, 2010

Rotas Can Make Life In Student Accommodation Better

The very word rota may make you feel uncomfortable. After all, surely one of the reasons you left your family home and entered student accommodation is to enjoy more freedom.

Therefore, the last thing you want is to be tied down by rules that have been imposed and must be adhered to.

After all, you are more than capable of clearing up after yourself and when areas such as the bathroom and kitchen need to be thoroughly cleaned, you will make sure you do your bit.

This is all well and good. The problems start when others living in student homes fail to hold up their end of the bargain.

Without rules being imposed, some people are likely to be lazy and will rely on others to do their share of household chores for them.

In such cases, either you relent and do their dirty work or hold firm and refuse to. When the latter approach is adopted, student accommodation in Leeds and elsewhere can become filthy and unpleasant to live in.

Meanwhile, if you take the former attitude and wash and clear up after others in student homes, you may well become resentful and your relationship with the lazy housemate will suffer.

The good thing about rotas is that they help to ensure cleaning is done fairly by everyone without arguments taking place.

Obviously, cleaning is not the only scenario in which rules like this can be applied.

You may also want to use them for things such as the buying of communal goods like washing up liquid and bin bags.

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Wednesday, October 6th, 2010

Are You Feeling Homesick?

One of the biggest problems you may face when you first move into student accommodation is homesickness.

This may be particularly the case if you head to somewhere far away from your family.

For example, you might move into a student property in Teesside and your relatives and friends are based in Cornwall.

This kind of adjustment can take a long time to get used to and the first few weeks are often difficult.

However, don’t despair if you are in this position. Rest assured that many others living in the student homes around you are also experiencing sadness.

And, rather than sitting around moping, there are a number of ways in which you can help ease the feelings.

Getting out and socialising is particularly effective in this way. After all, the sooner you make good friends in your new location, the sooner you will be able to stop pining for your pals from back home.

Another tactic you can employ is to make your student accommodation more homely.

One way of doing this is by adding decorative items like throws and posters to you room to brighten it up.

Also, you can put up photos and collages of images of people you know from back home so you feel they are not so far away.

Another good way of easing the transition is to organise a trip back to your friends and family that you can look forward to. However, you should make sure this isn’t too early in the term as it may stop you from integrating properly with fellow students.

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Monday, October 4th, 2010

What If You Don’t Get On With Your Flatmates?

When you arrive in your student accommodation you will probably have high hopes of getting on with those around you.

After all, a significant part of the university experience is the social side of life away from home.

For this reason, you will no doubt have been careful when choosing your student homes to try to maximise the chances you will get on with your flatmates.

However, with the best will in the world, there may be some individuals who you simply cannot get on with.

There are a plethora of reasons as to why you might fall out with those sharing a student property in Bristol or elsewhere with you.

Staying in such close proximity to others often leads to friction and sometimes to arguments.

For example, you may get frustrated with what you perceive as someone’s laziness domestically or think a flatmate is being inconsiderate by making too much noise at night or early in the morning.

Such problems can escalate and lead to big arguments and resentment.

However, it is in your interest to at least keep things on a cordial basis as it is probable you will be sharing student accommodation with the individual for a long time.

Trying to discuss issues in a civilised manner rather than letting problems build up is one tactic you should employ.

Another is to avoid saying things in the heat of the moment that you later regret. Such comments can make your differences worse and lead to further problems, which is something you should seek to avoid.

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